When DISASTER happens

Team,

 

The news coming out of Connecticut is devastating to all of us. How could such a horrific thing happen in our country, in a school just like the ones the kids in our ministries attend? I'm sure you have lots of questions, just like I do, but as we try to figure out pieces of this tragedy, we must remember that the children we minister to have heard this news, also. They will have a huge array of reactions. Some will be scared to the point of nightmares. Others will hardly pay attention to it, because it doesn't feel real. Most of the kids, though, will take this like everything else new they are experiencing and learning-with lots of questions as they process it.

Below you will find some things you may want to consider as you prepare to be with our kiddos this weekend. There are also some helpful websites. Spending some time thinking through how you are going to handle this unique situation will prepare you to lead as God would have you.

1. Listen.

If the kids want to tell you what they heard about the killings in Connecticut, then let them put it into words. As they voice what is bouncing around in their heads, it's a good step in bringing some order to their thoughts. It will also make you aware of any misinterpretations or false information.

2. Pray.

Listen first, so you have a reading on what the children are feeling. Then, go to prayer-fervent prayer of humility. This is the perfect time to teach kids that we start out praying. It's not our last resort. As a group, begin praying today for the families and the other kids at the Connecticut school, and continue to pray for them in the weeks ahead.

3. Talk in small groups.

The emotion of a large group, as kids fill in the details they have overheard, can cause more harm than good. This Sunday, it would be wise  to talk with small groups of children in an orderly fashion. This will also give more children the opportunity to speak their thoughts.

4. Allow them to be sad, or mad, or angry.

If squelched now, those feelings will find a way to come out eventually. Acknowledge that this incident makes us feel a lot of different ways. God is not afraid of our emotions-He made them for our benefit-and they have their time and place.

5. Be truthful. Don't pretend to have all the answers.

You don't, so be authentic with the kids and admit that you're working through this along with them. Tell them how your heart was crushed and your eyes welled with tears when you heard what had happened to these children.

6. Give short answers.

As a child asks a question, a whole dissertation is flashing through your mind. Keep your answers very short, because that's really what they want at this point.

7. Don't displace your reactions on the children.

Children easily pick up drastic reactions, comments, and emotions of people they look up to. Be cautious with what you say, in front of them or what they may overhear.

8. Assure them that you will do everything in your power to keep them safe.

All the safety measures that you have in place are because you love them and want them to be safe.

9. Watch for children who display extreme anxiety over this incident.

You see children in a different environment than parents normally do, and kids' church may be the place where anxiety is more easily noticeable. Don't hesitate to talk with a parent in private if a child is displaying reactions far beyond what the other children are.

10. Remind them that this was NOT from God.

Help kids understand that there is evil in the world, and it was that evil that brought this about.

Know that I will be praying for all of us this weekend as we minister to the precious children God has entrusted us with.

 

-Love you all, PT.

Info to appreciate and love on your fellow team members



Here's the best way to contact eachother along with our birthdates and ways we love to be appreciated!

Serving Area: Check In

Name: Alicia Chastain                    Birthday: August 25

Phone Number: 317-750-6718                    do they text? yes    

Email: aclay825@yahoo.com                                Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            email              Next best way: text

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

Serving Area: Check In

Name: Greg Rogers                        Birthday: November 8

Phone Number:  765-326-0022       do they text? yes

Email: grogers@defenderdirect.com                 Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: call

Best way to appreciate them: just a thank you!

 

Serving Area: Check in

Name: Shelly Rogers                       Birthday: October 10

Phone Number: 765-326-0034                    do they text? yes    

Email: mmmr1979@yahoo.com                Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: childcare so her and her hubby can go on a date

 

Serving Area: Check In

Name: Abi Rose                   Birthday: June 18

Phone Number:  765-891-1737                   do they text? yes    

Email:  abi.rose1990@gmail.com                 Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: pedi/mani

 

Serving Area: Check In

Name: Jeff McNew             Birthday: December 16

Phone Number:  765-891-8096                   do they text? yes    

Email: jamcnew@iupui.edu                       Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: just thanking him

 

Serving Area:  Check In

Name: Shauna Cole                       Birthday:  March 27

Phone Number:  765-891-0473                   do they text? yes    

Email: mygoose87@yahoo.com               Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text or fb                    Next best way:  email

Best way to appreciate them: manicure/pedicure, reececups

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-toddlers

Name: Holly Honeyman                 Birthday: January 18

Phone Number:  317-418-8598                   do they text? yes    

Email: hhoneyman@iupui.edu                  Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: coffee gift card or coffee date

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-Toddlers

Name: Karen Andrew                    Birthday: October 5

Phone Number:  765-482-3443                   do they text? NO

Email: NO EMAIL      Are they on Facebook? Yes

Best way to contact them:            Facebook                 Next best way: Home phone

Best way to appreciate them: Starbucks, yojoy, candles, lotion, Abuelos, Applebees

 

Name: Laura Garn
Birthday: June 10
Phone #: 317-796-8525 - I do text.
E-mail: laura.garn@gmail.com
I am on FB.
Best way to contact: e-mail 2nd best: text
Best way to be appreciated: a couple hours of childcare :)

 

Serving Area: Nursery

Name: Danielle Allen                      Birthday:  December 2

Phone Number:  765-336-1173                   do they text? yes    

Email: Dnallen83@gmail.com                    Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            Text                 Next best way: Email

Best way to appreciate them: Time Together

 

 

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-Infant

Name: Debra Culley                       Birthday: May 5

Phone Number:  765-483-0258 home                   do they text? yes    

Email: devotedmomof4@hotmail.com               Are they on Facebook? Not often

Best way to contact them:            cell 317-600-5811 text                      Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: speedway card, yo joy

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-infant

Name: Megan Woodard               Birthday: February 26

Phone Number:  765-891-0582                   do they text? yes    

Email: meganwoodard623@gmail.com                       Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: call

Best way to appreciate them: Mexican dinner date together or Mexican gift card, movie gift card for her and her husband to go on a date

 

Serving Area: Nursery-Toddlers

Name: Jill Dale                     Birthday: May 21

Phone Number:  765-336-1781       do they text? yes    

Email: jilldale76@gmail.com                      Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: a&w rootbeer, trip together to hobby lobby

 

Serving Area: Nursery-infant

Name: Antonio Sheets                   Birthday: July 4

Phone Number: 765-336-9669                    do they text? yes

Email: anthonydsheets@yahoo.com                               Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: Le Ann Sheets 765-336-1978

Best way to appreciate them: outback gift card, coke, ding dongs

 

Serving Area: Nursery- toddlers

Name: Christy Fisher                        Birthday: January 20

Phone Number:  765-336-9410       do they text? yes

Email: fisherc@leb.k12.in.us                       Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: iced tea, walmart gift card, candy, dinner date

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-toddler

Name: DJ Spears                 Birthday: August 5

Phone Number:  317-667-3188                   do they text? yes    

Email: spears82@hotmail.com                  Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

Serving Area: Nursery- infant

Name: Debra Cully              Birthday: May 5

Phone Number:  home phone 765-483-0258                  do they text? Yes at 317-600-5811

Email: devotedmomof4@hotmail.com               Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            texting number                     Next best way: home phone

Best way to appreciate them: m&m’s, cherry pepsi, tgifridays gift card

 

Serving Area: Nursery-toddlers

Name: Christen Quellhorst             Birthday: April 18

Phone Number:  765-894-7399                   do they text? yes    

Email: cquell@live.com                  Are they on Facebook? NO

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: call

Best way to appreciate them: ice cream date

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-infant

Name: Carrie Miles              Birthday: May 17

Phone Number:  765-481-5210       do they text? yes

Email: carrie-miles@att.net                        Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

 

Serving Area: Nursery-toddler

Name: Tonya Watson                      Birthday: July 23

Phone Number: 317-752-6913                    do they text? yes    

Email: rtbwatson@yahoo.com                 Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text/call                     Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

Serving Area: Pre-K

Name: Ashton Sheets                     Birthday: February 19

Phone Number: 765-376-5790        do they text? yes

Email: asheets8@ivytech.edu                                Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

 

Serving Area: Pre-K

Name: Tonja Padgett                      Birthday: September 30

Phone Number:  317.410.2634                    do they text? Yes    

Email: tonjam@frontiernet.net                  Are they on Facebook? Yes

Best way to contact them:            Text                 Next best way: Email

Best way to appreciate them: text or email to let her know we’re thinking of her

 

 

Serving Area: Pre-K

Name: Katie Garvin                        Birthday: July 10

Phone Number:  765-894-2263                   do they text? Yes

Email: tkmgarvin@yahoo.com                 Are they on Facebook? Yes

Best way to contact them:            Text                Next best way: Email

Best way to appreciate them: Sour Patch Kids

 

 

 

Serving Area: Pre-K

Name: Nancy Woodruff                 Birthday: May 19

Phone Number:  765-652-2436                   do they text? yes    

Email: njw2008@sbcglobal.net                  Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: diet pepsi, hot chocolate

 

 

Serving Area: Pre-K

Name: Ashley Bostwick                  Birthday: October 8

Phone Number:  765-336-4226       do they text? yes    

Email: bostwickna@gmail.com                Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: a hug, time together

 

 

Serving Area: K-2nd

Name: Alisha Wallace                    Birthday: August 17

Phone Number:  765-366-9414                   do they text? yes

Email: messymonster72@gmail.com                    Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: email

Best way to appreciate them: diet coke, old navy gift card

 

Serving Area: K-2^nd

Name: Stacy McIntyre                    Birthday: February 15

Phone Number:  765-481-7142                   do they text? yes

Email: msm5485@yahoo.com                   Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            facebook      Next best way: text

Best way to appreciate them: walmart gift card, pepsi, chocolate, fruity candy

 

Serving Area: K-2nd

Name: Scott Trafford                      Birthday: May 23

Phone Number:  765-894-2355                   do they text? yes    

Email: redbravo08@gmail.com                Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: milky way candy bar

 

Serving Area: K-2

Name: Katie Yonts               Birthday: December 31

Phone Number:  317-902-2252                   do they text? y        

Email: kefy1231@aim.com             Are they on Facebook? y

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: time together, texts, mail, Mexican dinner date

 

Serving Area: 3-4^th

Name: Le Ann Sheets                     Birthday: September 6

Phone Number:  765-336-1978                   do they text? yes

Email: le_sheets@yahoo.com AND le_sheets@express-scripts.com             Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: BOTH EMAILS AT SAME TIME

Best way to appreciate them: gift card to Lee Nails

 

Serving Area: 3-4^th grade

Name: Amanda Shue                     Birthday: March 4

Phone Number:  765-336-9109                   do they text? y

Email: ashue85@gmail.com                      Are they on Facebook? y

Best way to contact them:            email              Next best way: text

Best way to appreciate them: diet pepsi

 

 

Serving Area: 3-4th

Name: Becca Sheets                      Birthday: September 22

Phone Number:  765-336-1379                   do they text? Yes    

Email: bsheets.57@gmail.com                  Are they on Facebook? Yes

Best way to contact them:            Text                 Next best way: Email

Best way to appreciate them: Starbucks date

 

 

Serving Area: 3-4^th

Name: Tia Corbett               Birthday: December 17

Phone Number:  765-491-9945                   do they text? yes

Email: tia_corbett@yahoo.com               Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: in person

Best way to appreciate them: frozen yogurt date, kitkat

 

 

Serving Area: 3-4^th

Name: Rachel Wells            Birthday: October 23

Phone Number:  765-336-9472       do they text? yes

Email: rachew05@ohotmail.com                          Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: fb

Best way to appreciate them: reeses pieces, mt dew, o’charleys gift card

 

Serving Area: 3-4th

Name: William Cummings              Birthday: August 13

Phone Number:  765-481-8641                   do they text? yes    

Email: williamistaken@yahoo.com                                   Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them: text                            Next best way: call

Best way to appreciate them: candy bar

 

Serving Area:  3-4^th grade

Name: Wendy Smith                       Birthday: May 24

Phone Number:  765-891-1955                   do they text?            Yes

Email: Wjsmith77@yahoo.com                  Are they on Facebook? Yes

Best way to contact them:            Text                 Next best way: FB

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

Serving Area: 3-4th

Name: Zaria Souders                       Birthday: September 23

Phone Number:  765-481-7409                   do they text? yes    

Email: Zrsouders@yahoo.com                   Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            text                 Next best way: call

Best way to appreciate them: time together

 

 

 

 

 

Serving Area: Greenhouse

Name: Pastor Tiffany Koehler                    Birthday:  November 26

Phone Number:  765-418-4132                   do they text? yes    

Email: tiffany@freedom-church.org                    Are they on Facebook? yes

Best way to contact them:            email              Next best way: text

Best way to appreciate them: Mani/Pedi gift card, Yo joy date, note card with appreciation

 

 

 

Mirrors, Mood Rings, and Airplanes

Here’s a question I’m sure you are asking. What possible connection is there between mirrors, mood rings and airplanes? Here's my best answer. All three of them give you feedback...about your attitude!

I love it when God works on one particular area of your life. You know, that two day intensive reminder course in (fill in the blank). My blank this past week was my “attitude” and it wasn’t a good one. You know.. it's when your spouse notices it, your kids notice it, your friends notice it, the guy who cut you off on the freeway noticed it, everyone noticed it...except you. It wasn’t until I had feedback from the following three things that I realized mine was going downhill if not already at the bottom. Consider the mirror, the mood ring and the airplane.

The Mirror - This morning the person in the mirror, who was staring back it me, had a bad attitude. I could see it all over the face. Mirrors are like that. You get immediate feedback on what you really look like, especially with your facial expressions. The mirror doesn’t lie. If you smile, it smiles back, if you frown, it frowns back. You can tell a lot about your attitude by looking in the mirror. How do you look today?

Mood Rings - I was looking through a box of old stuff the other day. I say old because in the box there was a phone “cord” a cassette tape and a mood ring! Mood rings were originally created with the clever but never proven assumption that your body temperature would change based on the mood or attitude you were in at the time. The mood ring was supposed to act as a sort of fashion thermometer. If you were upset or mad the mood ring would change to red. If you were calm and cool the mood ring would change to blue or green. What color is your mood ring today?

Airplanes - Next time you board an airplane take a look into the flight deck. You will see, right there in the middle of the instrument panel, a gauge that’s appropriately called the Attitude Indicator. This instrument is responsible for giving the pilot feedback about the planes attitude. Yes, planes have attitude. The attitude of a plane shows the relationship of the nose of the airplane to the horizon. If the nose of the airplane is above the horizon the pilot would call that a nose up attitude which, as it turns out, is a great attitude to have if you’re a plane (and a person). If the nose of the aircraft is below the horizon pilots would call that a nose down attitude which, as it turns out, is not a good attitude to have. Either way, the attitude indicator gives feedback about how the aircraft is performing. A nose up or nose down attitude. Do you have a nose up attitude today?

So, there you have it. Mirrors, Mood Rings and Airplanes. Three ways to get feedback about your attitude. I hope you’re smiling, green and nose up this week.

A look back at 2012



What a year it has been! One year in our first permanent facility! SO EXCITING and it went by so quick!!!

Let's take a look at our 2012 Journey:

 

Jan Up! All about Jesus

Feb Parables

Mar Parables

Apr Psalm 139 All about God

May Sky: Trust God

June Go the Distance: Paul (boy and sport focused)

July Great Comeback (boy and sport focused)  (Summer BBQ)

Aug  Changed

Sept  Fruit of the Spirit  (and we had our totally fun retreat!)

Oct    Fruit of the Spirit

Nov     Fruit of the Spirit

Dec Hometown Nazareth: Where Jesus was a kid.

We started out by learning about who Jesus is, stories about Him and about God, learned how to fight and work as a team to beat the enemy. Then we learned how God changes us and then what we're supposed to look like and then wrapped up with how we look like Jesus as a kid! What a great journey to grow the kids! What was your favorite part?


And now that we're getting ready for another year.. the only 2013 there will ever be so we're going to make it awesome! The Greenhouse is a safe and fun place for kids to Discover God so we're going to to our best to make that happen :o)

Stay tuned for a look at 2013!